Leaders Make Decisions from the Facts

In July 2007, I posted a podcast entitled Proactive versus Reactive where I presented a simplified version of the Ladder of Inference – a model created by Chris Argyris. Okay, maybe even oversimplified is my presentation (but I need ‘simple’ to actually put things into practice).

Sheri and I worked together providing coaching and training to a large I.T. audience back in the beginning years of this 21st Century. We would leave a meeting and walk down those long corridors together. We would be debriefing those most recent occurrences and Sheri would suddenly look at me and say, “I’m scripting aren’t I?”

We both did it. And it was great to have an accountability partner to learn how to control it – the scripting that is. That is what I learned to call those negative stories I found myself writing after something had occurred that caused my emotions to bubble up, or even boil over. Below is the natural flow:

 Facts  –  Feelings  –  Script  –  Action

Something happens – a simple fact. This factual occurrence makes you feel something. You then begin to write a script. And if you are not careful, you will make decisions about action based on your feelings represented in the script. Many times, this simply proves not to be the best course of action.

The better course seems to come when we make decisions of action based on the facts – not our feelings.

I will never tell you to ignore your feelings. As a matter of fact, you should acknowledge and honor them. Leaders listen to their feelings – and then they go back to the facts – what they really know – and stay there as they think through any action that they may take. It’s a balancing act that every leader has to learn.

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About Jeff Brunson

In this whirling 21st Century the individual needs to embrace the authentic self and confidently leverage the energy and power found there. As we entered the 21st Century, I became more concerned about what leaders like you needed for successful influence and personal fulfillment. As we move deeper into this challenging 21st Century, I’m more convinced than ever that the core of my work is in helping individual leaders remember who they are − a trueness. It is about confidence found in your authenticity.

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